Vengeance

I enjoy writing light-hearted happy posts. If you enjoy my optimistic, hopeful posts this one is not for you and I apologize in advance.

Boston's 'dad (should I even call him that) gets to see her every two months for a little visit. This is a time for him to get to pretend to be a dad. Let me honest I am a wreck about it, literally what does he know about babies, let alone mine. I have had nothing that says I have to let his family see my baby in between those times, but I have tried to, because i have been working on forgiveness and am seeing the good in them.

I only get along with and really know one of my dad, michaels brothers, my Uncle Doug and his wife, whom i absolutely love. Not because my mom ever spoke badly about them while I was growing up but because they made zero effort to get to know me or see me or be a part of my life. I literally saw who is my "grandpa" a few months back at Wal Mart and quickly walked in the other direction. I have decided I don't want that for Boston. If her "dads family would make an effort I would accept it. I have been decent on sending pictures to them. Since his last little visit back in the first of February I have let them take her a few times to lunch or the park. I stopped on Easter so that I could show their family Boston's new Easter dress. I am in no means obligated to but I want as many people to love my baby as possible. I truly thought it was so nice and I was appreciative of the cute pair of shoes and dress they gave her after I let them take her to lunch recently.

Boston's "dad" gets his small visit this weekend. I am terrified for her, she legitimately has NO idea who he is. I offered to let him FaceTime with her once a week, he declined. I offered a FaceTime visit on her one year old birthday, once again he declined. This little visit he gets is for him to bond with my daughter for him to pretend he is a dad, not for his trash (and, yes I will call her that with ZERO remorse, espicially since that what he used to refer to her as)to pretend she is my baby's mom.

I didn't want to punish his family for her stupidity, for the fact she constantly attacks me, for the fact the tries to act like Boston's mom, or for the fact she brags about hooking up with my child's "dad" while I was pregnant, oh or her new insane tactic of trying to befriend my friends. My parents don't get punished for my mistakes, so why should they? Finally enough is enough. You solely ruined it for them. Kudos to you. I hope when you read this blog you feel like an idiot. I hope you feel like a real tool when you buy yourself things and child support is still almost 1000 dollars behind. In less than 13 days the ORS are contacting his employers and it will be getting garnished from his paychecks to get caught up.

I don't teach her to call him "dad" and I will no longer teach her to call any of them aunts, uncles, grandma or grandpa. Myself and my family get those titles....because have we earned them.

So keep it right up....Read this and know you ruined so much. Literally so many people laugh at your lack of manners and education. Because of you I will pay a babysitter before I let my forgiveness get the best of me again and let them see her.

I am Boston's mom. She has my last name, she is going to be sad and miss me when she is forced to be with you. And by the time she gets older she will see you for exactly what you are. So, please by all means send me a comment on my blog,
I have it tracked where it comes from and you look rediculous. Unfortunately, disfunction is all some people know. Sleeping with my baby's dad while I was pregnant will make you TONS of things but a mom will NEVER be one of them.

I am the mom, I wake up with her, I feed her, I change her diapers. Not for attention or praise but because I love her and if I don't who will. I take her to appointments, I teach her words and new things. By you trying to take any sort of credit for that makes you look like a complete joke. I don't like fighting, conflict gives me an upset stomach but I will now be standing my ground on this matter.

A WORRIED MOM DOES BETTER RESEARCH THAN THE FBI...


Ashlynn

** cant get revenge and keep a spotless reputation....Sometimes revenge is a choice you gotta make.