Rumors

* expect bullshit, but don't accept it.

*at some point you have to stop trying to see the good in all people; most the time they don't change.

*facts are impossible to forget.

*people are always so much more friendly at the store when you have a baby with you.

*rumours by bitter girls are just that... Rumors by bitter girls... I am choosing to address one.

...Lately Boston's "dads" current woman has tried telling people that I got pregnant on purpose. Of all the rumors started by her this one is the most disturbing and demeaning.. Last fall when Boston's "dad" had said he wanted to sign his rights over again I told him that one day I had forgot my birth control in hopes that would make him feel better about his decisions since I knew it would be better for Boston and I in the long run. I also told him that the day I forgot to take it; which would have been four weeks after I had gotten pregnant. It makes my stomach sick that she has tried to twist that into something different. I have always said that I will never regret Boston only that I didn't do things right. I decided to address the venomous rumor publicly since I have been warmed that she is trying to spread it. I was not in a stable relationship at the time with Boston's "dad" and I was not quite finished with school so I clearly would not have purposely chose to get pregnant. The truely sad thing in this whole situation is that if this were kept between Boston's "dad" and myself in sure we could be able to handle things in the best interest of my child. I occassionally him videos of her milestones with rude responses, its sad that someone can be so insecure in tbeir relationship. Recently my friends have been harrassed in the middle of the night. my car tires have been slashed among with other issues, such as threatening my blogs sponsors; bullying is a sad thing.

 I try to see the other side such as she has nothing to feel her days with, but it needs to stop. I am aware she likes to believe I care what she spends her day doing but i honestly could care less till my name and my dauhhters comes out of ber mouth. I have recieved  some advice from other moms in this situation but if you can think of anything else let me know. I'm clearly sick of the mudslinging she is doing and all of the upset, tears and drama being forces upon my daughter and I. 

XO:

A very annoyed and frustrated mom