First off... Boston doesn't get 'tossed back and forth' since her dad moved back into the state she see's him twice a month. Second of all she is only allowed to be there if he is. If he isn't there she comes home to her house.
We have been talking lately about what the roles of significant others are and I am assuming he finally discussed these roles last night (thank God). But for the love of everything can they not be kept private by some people? Like, really, it is between Boston's two parents for the best of Boston. I don't need to go into details of why certain rules were established but if you are close with me you know exactly why they were set in place and not because I am some villain who is jealous but because respect for boundaries were't happening and things that were being shared were misleading and untrue. Last night when we were speaking I mentioned to Boston's dad that Boston has said she wished that her, myself, and her dad and his other kids could all live together... ironically he must have said that I said that because now it is being said that she has said that to his significant other as well... ya know, right after I told him about it, weird. I left from a meeting with Boston's dad feeling more confident about our situation and what was best for our daughter last night and yet again I am woken up to find out that it can't be kept private and that someone feels like they need all the attention they can sponge off of this situation. IF you actually loved my daughter then why can't you let her parents be civil towards each other. I get that some people's childhood were hard but please don't pass your issues onto my daughter... get help or counseling to move on. My daughter has NEVER been abandoned by her mother but rather she has let her father have a relationship with her when he came back into her life.
I'm annoyed. And I have every right to be.
I pray she gets every ounce of attention she feels like she needs from mine, my daughter and her dads situation.
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