This was a post directed at me today. I have never felt so sad in a long time. This is where my upset rant came from today. If you want just one of the reasons why my daughter will most likely have no respect or good feelings towards you talking to her mom like this should help explain it. I have my baby. I have her 96% of the week. She is helping me with the sadness I have had all day. I'm posting this so you can see the rudeness and lies being thrown at me. I'm sure they are aware it was rude by how quickly they took it down.
But here it is...
Honestly.
Let me put this bluntly for everyone. Michael is a great father. Yes he offered to give up his rights after trying to make this situation better only after countless threats and mind games being played on me and his family. He thought it would be best for Boston. He has only ever thought of Boston in this situation. He had ALWAYS wanted to be apart of his daunters life since the moment she was born. Yes he thought of abortion and adoption. He was young a scared. And honestly adoption was not a bad idea after what I see this sweet little girl being put through. The only thing that has kept Michael from his daughter was the mind games and tricks and selfishness of a certain girl. I am so sick of people and friends having to feel like the have to choose sides. This isn't dodge ball and we do not need to pick sides. Michael and I trying to live our life. We are apart of Boston's life and will not be bullied out of it. Stop trying to trash everyone. grow up enjoy Boston like we do when we have her. I am for one over this drama that she is trying to push on everyone. Im sorry you feel your team is losing but thats not anyones fault but your own. Im sorry you didn't get your fairy tale. But this is 2013 who really does. Lets be honest here you want everyone to think michael and I are horrible and Im sure you will try to raise boston to hate us. But like you said Boston is smart. We pay our child support every month and try to help out in any way that we can We have also paid the back child support that was owed. Yes it may be late a few days but we are not made of money. We struggle like every newly married couple. Michael never skipped town for Boston's mother to do everything on her own. If she wants to tell everyone how bad of a father he is she needs to look out in the world and see how much worse it can be. She needs to realize how blessed she is. She could have someone who ran out on them skipped town to be never found again and have to actually support herself and Boston.
I really only have one apology and thats to Boston..
I am so sorry that Boston is being fought over like meat. Im sorry that people can't get along for her sake. It breaks my heart to see what is being done to her. Im sorry she is going to have to grow up knowing how selfish everyone is being. I hope by the time Boston old enough to know whats going on she will understand where her dad was coming from and see he has only ever wanted whats best for her.
Now Im sure this post will make people mad.. Im ready for it. Sorry I was so blunt but this hole situation is a joke. Boston is a person not a toy. She is not something to be fought over she is a human and people need to start acting like it.
what comes to my mind is that in order to justify being late/ failing to meet deadlines, is that it could be worse. to her i would say, "your right, it could be worse. that however does not make up for the fact that late is late. if i am late on my rent i am immediately charged $50 and then an additional $20 dollars a day it is late. i could skip town and never pay my land lord but that doesnt make up for the fact that i failed in my responsibility to meet my end of a contract." then i would say, "it could be way worse, every time you are late paying your child support, Ashlynn could tell you you may not see the child you are failing to support."
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