Off Limits

I love blogging and I have basically shown I will post about almost everything. I posted about my terrible pregnancy and 24 hours of labor. I posted about the skin cancer I had removed from my stomach when I was eight months pregnant. I post about my 'kick A' two older sisters and their families (and how hard it must be for them that I am the favorite child... KIDDING). I post about my amazing mom and how much Boston loves her. I post about my dad, Michael who died when I was ten and my awesome dad, Kevin, who no one can compare to. I love posting about my supportive friends I was blessed with. I write tons and tons about Boston and my new experiences of being a mom. I write about my annoying habits, my goals, my mistakes and lessons I have learned. I occasionally post about the person who copies me, antagonizes me and other hurtful things but I try to avoid giving her anymore attention than she seeks. I write about my daily struggle with forging. I love getting to do giveaways with awesome companies and I love posting about products I love. Every so often I will slide one of my political views in here and post about bad media role models. The point is I love sharing mine and Boston's lives with people... There is only one thing that is off limits.

At least a couple times a week I get messages asking  for me to write about my "dating life". That is a topic that I like to keep private. Until I see a very awesome future with someone that extends past cool Christmas presents we can get for each other I won't make it public. There are a few reasons for this... 

One: while I was pregnant with Boston and in labor with her I was humiliated. Everyone knows Boston's "dad" had a girl he was creeping around with. I can laugh about it now but let's be honest while it was happening it was embarrassing and devastating. Any girl that has ever had that happen to them can agree it's humiliating and if they say it's not I would like to shake their hand so I can tell them in person they are a liar. I don't introduce Boston to every male I talk to, it's not appropriate and I won't introduce any and every male I talk to to the blogging world. Boston and I are always together so if you are meeting her that's a big deal and you better impress her.

Another reason is because I'm not 16 and I don't need to post about dates and guys and relationships. Once you are past a certain age it's strange and immature to constantly post just how in love you are. At this point it's not a guy being with a girl but also a guy auditioning to be a dad, and not just a dad but the best dad, because that is what Boston deserves.

We had a big discussion about getting asked constantly about my relationship status and we laughed about it. This lead to us making a list of why you shouldn't date me... Here are the top three.

1- I will always pick Boston over you. ALWAYS. It makes me so sick when I have seen other parents not make their child their priority. If you are the type of person who makes someone choose you over their child... You are a terrible person. She is my number one and if you can't accept that than I can't accept you.

2- I would rather go on a stroller walk and watch Sesame Street on Netflix than go to a party on a Saturday night. That's just not my thing anymore. It's cool if it's for you, though. 

3-I won't trust you right off the bat. Most cases you are innocent till proven guilty. I have learned and put up a few walls. I will always assume you are lying till you prove that you arnt. 

So, I totally love sharing our lives; my struggles and triumphs and everything that is in between. If I have someone amazing to introduce you to you will hear about it when I am ready.

XO:

Ashlynn&Boston BRONSON