I appreciate all of the concerned messages and texts I always receive but just realize like I said in a previous post I have come to expext things like this, it's no longer shocking; disturbing but not shocking. Clearly, she has learned how to really play it up and I guess that's what she is now going for.
I'm not really even sad about it, Boston knows who her mom is, she knows who her family is. For any readers out there who are "step parents" I commend the good ones. I applaud the ones who know boundaries, I like the ones who don't try to constantly berate the mom raising the child. I appreciate the ones who don't do things to be vindictive, who dont post things just to cause fights and gain attention, who don't say things like, "they don't want to share the child and they want to be the one to dress them and do their hair." I love the step parents who don't tell people that they are going to take a bath with the child just to make the mom mad (actually no one should ever take a bath with someone else's child... Ever). I seriously admire the ones who don't make fun of the headbands the child's mom makes. I have a step dad and do you know how bad I would have despised him if he spoke about my dad the way I get spoken about. If Boston's "dad" posted things about our daughter I would probably really appreciate it and be happy that he did; I know deep down that he does love her and attention he gives her is genuine and not for attention.
If sneaking around with someone's "dad" when their mom is in labor with them makes you think you are a parent than I feel sad for you. Honestly, I appreciate all of the thoughtful messages but at the end of the day Boston knows and I know and that's what's really the most important. It's sad when constant attention and stirring up things is what some people go for. I honestly pray for my daughters sake that contention gets old for some people.
I guess it's not really Boston I am being taught patience from.
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Ash! you go thru way more than any more should have to! I saw her crap and i wanted to scream for you! why will she not learn to stop??? is she mentally ok???? im sorry girl! i tried commenting on her blog a while back and she has it blcked probly because she knows what she does is wrong. boston will be sick when she learns how she is.
ReplyDeleteI told u in a message a while back that I only knew who u were because of her... I'm so sorry. My heart hurts every time I see her do this. It's not okay!! You were the one pregnant with Boston, u gave birth to her,
ReplyDeleteI change all of her diapers and wake up with her. I are her mom, her family! Her seeing her a couple times a year is nothing.
She isn't family. Seriously I am fuming for you! I hope it stops soon
Sorry girl! One day I hope she becomes a real mom so she can see what she had done is so disrespectful to you AND to Boston! Chin up! Don't let her show get to you!
ReplyDeleteI really believe u n mike can be awesome parents to Boston. But I know that you two would be able to co parent if this crazy would stop her nonsense! Prayers going out for u Boston and mike
ReplyDeleteI know as a mom myself I would want as many people to love my baby ad possible. And I guess we can be happy she isn't saying (at least publicly) that she hates her... But she is proving to not be that mentally stable..
ReplyDeleteWhat do you want her to do? You do a lot of complaining but you never tell her what you would want her to do instead. You complain about her saying she loves Boston... Do you want her to say she hates her? You complain about her wanting to dress her up and fix her hair... Do you want her to not bath her, leave her in sloppy dirty clothes, and let her hair get ratty? You complain about her calling Boston family... It's B's dad, her grandparents, and one day her half siblings... Don't you think it would be hard on Boston if she didn't include her in that 'family'. You seem like a great mom and one of my friends working at your salon with you showed me your blog but so far I've just read a lot of selfishness between you and this girl... no one is really thinking about Boston. I love Boston! She was always so fun when she would come sit at my station with me at New Horizons, which was generally about twice a month... yet I never met you. I used to watch your baby for a couple hours at a time and you have no idea who I am and neither does this other chick. Boston is a great baby and she deserves to have as many people love her as possible, sometimes as a mom its ok to let other people love your baby especially when its court ordered and you have no other choice! Might as well quit complaining about it now... at least Boston comes back to you safe and sound at the end of each visit!
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed this comment mostly for the fact That you act like you know my daughter and That you watched her for hours... I went to new horizons 3 times last fall and only let Boston out of my sight for Mandy and Mollie to play with... I'm sorry but Boston nor myself will never consider her family to Boston. I hope when you have children you will understand why.,. When people speak bad about her I never correct them. Ever. She doesn't deserve that. But I actually never speak about her to Boston.. Good or bad. Boston is going to see exactly what she is like and she will gain her opinion. What she posts isn't because "she loves Boston so much" she had told countless people that she doesn't and That she is annoyed about child support. She see's my child .5% of the year...
DeleteFor her to have the audacity to put on a show that she is her mom is disturbing. And.. From looking this user comment over I am sure you are very aware that Boston hasn't always came home unharmed...
Ashlynn! Don't even listen to that ONE neg comment! There are soooo many people who admire what you have done for you and Boston. The person who wrote that comment is clearly friends with her!!!! I'm sick of the crap she always pulls! You should not have to go thru this. And for her to say she loves Boston and you don't. She made herself sound stupid!!!
ReplyDeleteOooook. Let s be real... There marriage will last another year lol! That what I have heard! Then u won't have to deal wit her bullshit! Don't let it get to u! Most immature grl I have ever seen! No respect and that's y she doesn't get any
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Haha As reader of your blog for over a year now I have to say you never disappoint! The comments are are just as entertaining as the blog! It's like watching Kardashian drama via Blogger... keep your chin up. People only give you crap on here because you REACT to it just like what you wrote about. My guess is the step mom goes all out because you get on here and come right back at her... It makes you both look bad.
ReplyDeleteWhere is mike in all of this??? Does he even know??? Or care??
ReplyDeleteI kinda think you should cut her some slack. She obviously doesn't know better? She has talked a ton about how she didn't have a mom That was good in her opinion. She could possibly not even know what she does is not appropriate and hurtful. I try to give people the benefit of the doubt.. I wonder where her in laws are in all of this? But maybe she is in fact just mean and she knows exactly what she is doing .
ReplyDeleteI'm sure you know since you actually read a lot not just watch the movie... Buts it's Elizabeth Gilbert author of eat pray love... She didn't come up work that... Lol. Unoriginal again
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