Positive Vibes

Boston's 'dad is using his parent time he has every few months and even though it's for just a short time and she hasn't even left I miss her already. I show her one of the pictures I have of the three of us often in hopes that she is a little less nervous and she hopefully recognizes him so she won't be as scared. I have been telling her that she is going to spend a little bit of time with him and he is really fun and he probably got her a present for Christmas. I let her know that his mom and dad and siblings are fun and will be good to her and that he is funny and will dance and sing with her just how mamma does. I tell her tons that if she gets sad she can call her mamma. Seriously, nothing hurts my whole heart worse than when she cries when she goes with him...as hard as it is on me having her gone for such a short time it's harder being worried about her be sad. I'm sure he is nice to her but she is just a baby and it's hard on her.

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Send us your good vibes and prayers that it passes fast. I'm sure he will have a pretend Christmas for her so hopefully that's fun for her. I have a ton planned for myself so I will stay busy. My little bully I'm sure will relish on me missing my baby so I have already mentally prepared myself for that.... But along with preparing myself for the worst I have been working on having a positive mind set for it... This too shall pass & it's going to be over super quick so if I make it enjoyable it's bound to turn out enjoyable, right? 

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We have done so many Christmas activities already.. Saw Santa (a few times) saw the lights, Christmas movies,Gingerbread  houses... You name it and we have done it.. We will go to my parents home for Christmas Eve with my sisters and their families and I'm trying to decide if I want Boston and I to stay the night there and have Christmas morning with my mom and dad or do our own thing at our house. Feel free to give me your advice on the matter...

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XO:

Ashlynn&Boston BRONSON

Nighttime snuggles!