ASHLYNN & BOSTON: Parents shouldn't die first

Parents shouldn't die first.... chronologically it isn't fair. But you know what I can tell you the number one rule I have learned in life.... it is never going to be fair. A little girl shouldn't have to watch as her dad one day just doesn't open his eyes again and is too scared and confused to go grab her mom and has not even slightest idea how to call 911. Today this day when I hear friends say how they have never had anyone close to them pass away a small sliver of anger passes through my body.

My grandparents have always been two of my number one supporters. They have loved me unconditionally. They love everyone they have met and saw good in every person. They were kind, giving, fun, and loving. They shouldn't have had their once strong bodies and minds slowly and painfully leave them leaving them with so much hurt and death as the answer they are yearning for. Boston should have got to know all of these people.

I don't cry. I have a hard time doing so, but I miss them, a lot. Life isn't fair, kids die, sisters do, brothers do, baby's do. Boston didn't get to meet her grandparents and I don't remember my dad. I once hear that life can be summed up with three simple words, "life goes on"... So, they people you love die, and you grieve and you are angry and you move on, because in all reality they wouldn't want to see you in pain and hurt either.

Today I ran across this song my mom shared on her facebook wall. It was a song that was sang at my grandpa's funeral and I loved it so much I wanted to share. I hope if you have ever loved someone who left earlier that you wished they would have it means something to you as well.