Standing up for myself

The fight continues and I refuse to be blamed for it any longer... Boston's dad was allowed six times a month to see his daughter. As of last week he officially gave up four of those visits. He also tried to get rid of her early on his visit yesterday. He refuses contact with her when she is with me and doesn't communicate about her. 

Also, I will just throw this out there... He was supposed to drop her off at seven not five like she claims he then got mad that I wasn't home for him to drop her off earlier. I would have gladly taken her back but I was on a hike and didn't have service.

My daughter comes home from his house crying saying that his new wife is mean to her and that she does innapropiate things to her. And I will never be okay with that. I pray to God my daughter never learns any of her traits. She has messaged my mother and my sisters. One time she even called and yelled at my mom, who is literally a saint, while my mom just sat there and let it happen. She has text me bragging to me that Mike chose her even when I was pregnant with his child. We have those texts saved for whenever we go to court. I feel sick of that fact that my child is forced to spend time with a woman like that. When she likes to attack me she usually goes for my age which is weird because I'm not 30 years old and the age I am I have no problem with... Those are real signs of maturity.

She likes to tell people I sleep around and I'm with different guys every week. She likes to tell people I make fun of people with disabilities... I find that very offensive since I have spent six years working with these people and loving it... Another fact people might not know is that my own father was in a wheelchair and I cried myself to sleep many nights when I was younger when I heard other kids talk about it. I don't have a problem with her kids... I only have a problem with the fact that my kids have them same dad as they do yet he does so little for them. Yeah, I did tell Mike people ask me if his kids have special needs. I didn't actually say, "your kids have special needs" and I did let him know I don't care about them but my concern is my daughter. The texts she is posting are between Michael and I not her and I... I have made a point that legally I do not wanting her contacting myself nor my family again, even though she contacted my older sister once again. I did say I didn't think they are cute and I said it because hurt people hurt people... I was hurt that once again my child was being put on the back burner....

She likes to have her friends post hurtful things about me and even though I have thick skin it hurts.

I would like to say I feel regret about it but I don't. This woman and her manipulation have been making my life hell for years. The past while I have tried to keep mine and Michaels personal problems personal but she loves to involve herself and anyone who will give her attention for  it. 

Im sick of it. I'm fed up. It's been three years of her doing this but I feel like I need to stand up for myself at this point again. Thank you for your kind messages last night... It was a really hard one with way too many tears. That's what this woman has done to me my first three years of motherhood... I'm not playing victim I'm standing up for myself. Mike and I have a child together... I imagine we will bicker and disagree a lot the next 15 years it would just be a lot easier if Tonya could not antagonize it and search for attention from it.

Just a side note just a few things from Saint Tonya... Part of what was used in court. Despite what she would like you to assume she is not a nice person. Just so everyone notices again it is not Boston's other parent I am fighting with it is her.